Motherhood : listening to disabled women

Abstract

This qualitative research study examines the lived experiences of disabled women pursuing motherhood in Malta and their perceptions about disability and parenting. Seven disabled mothers from different impairment groups were interviewed and data was analysed using thematic analysis. Critical disability studies was chosen as the conceptual framework, and discussion was done within a Foucauldian approach. Findings suggest that stereotypes and prejudices regarding disability and motherhood persist, with intersectional identities of gender and disability increasing the likelihood of stigma. Invisible disabilities are less understood, and society is more compassionate towards physically disabled persons. Consequently, persons with invisible disabilities frequently have to prove their eligibility for services and supports, thus causing needless distress. There is a prevailing belief that disability can be inherited from mother to offspring. This is looked down upon through ableist assumptions and eugenic beliefs. Disabled women’s parenting abilities are often undervalued resulting in the possibility of child removal. Consequently, disabled mothers often have to prove their abilities as parents. Coping with daily stressors caused by the impairment, societal beliefs, and child removal can cause psychological distress. Nevertheless, disabled women generally find motherhood fulfilling and rewarding. They view their children as their motivation to persevere. Regardless of their impairment, they find alternative ways to care for them. Support from family, friends, and neighbours enables them to navigate the challenges of parenting. Disabled women pursuing motherhood can be better supported in attaining their maternal aspirations through an increased provision of services and adjustments that effectively cater for their individual needs.